I have been extremely blessed to have had such an exciting
and extremely fortunate first couple days in Germany. The predominating theme
that I want to highlight is that of the people of Germany. Since I got off the
plane in Frankfurt and through my first few days at the University in
Osnabruck, it is the people that have touched me. I did not expect the loving,
warm and friendly characters that I have been introduced to in this country. I
expected to be greeted by citizens of a jaded, Post World War II society, but
instead they have been inviting and helpful.
My first encounter began at the airport in Frankfurt, at
which an extremely friendly couple approached my travel companion, Falon, and I
and offered to show us through the airport and assist us in catching our first
train. They were such open and loving people. They told us all about their
lives, where they live and have lived, (in Frankfurt, Rodenbach, New York, and
Florida), and what things to look for while we visited the area. Their
compassion grounded me in my shock from being in the foreign surroundings.
Remarkably, I found myself less-guarded and open to the new experience in a way
that I had never thought possible while travelling abroad. Over the next few
days, I found many more warm and welcoming German students that were just as excited
to meet and speak to me as I was toward them. More importantly, they were so
willing and happy to show me the customs of their culture, the countryside of
their small historic city, and speak to me about what I was studying or why my
school group was visiting. I am elated and comfortable to find such wonderful
people. Not that I was expecting terribly unfriendly people or anything, but
more I was expecting people to be much more guarded and so absorbed in their
own thoughts and lives that they would not care to extend their efforts to a
measly, young traveler. However, I have been pleasantly surprised and happily
influenced by their boisterous personalities and many life lessons that have
been offered by these strong and passionate Germans.
Being surrounded by such positive avenues of communication
and smooth means of transportation, I realized how much I can depend on myself
and my own decisions. At times in my daily life at home in the States, I can
find myself feeling lost, out-of-control, or even under-confident in my
decisions of where I want to go or what I intend to do. Now, however, I find it
an easier process to find self-affirmation and dependence. My decisions are
more direct in my forethought, and it seems to have happened overnight. I have
traveled to this country and find it a necessity to have such an ability to
stand firm and know that I am just in my decision-making processes. I have made steps to strategically plan and
prepare for my days here. I feel that this particular travelling experience has
put me in a better position to do such actions and that my efforts are being
channeled in an effective manner. I find my thoughts more cut-and-dry. Ordered.
Ordered in a way that allows me to have the most productive, effective day that
I can possibly have while studying, shopping, socializing and networking
abroad. I only hope to transfer these newly found/installed habits into my life
routine at home as I plan the next big steps after my recent graduation. I’d
like to say that Germany has facilitated the process of reassuring not only my
personal goals, but my affirmed “self”-support in those goals. To have a
thought and to follow through with it whole-heartedly, is one that has become invaluable
on this trip.
Personal trust has come from trusting in others. I haven’t
given up hope in people and the power that each can have on the other. In this way, I mean that it is through the
example of the interactions with these self-assured, level-headed Germans, that
I have discovered a long forgotten ability in trusting myself. It will
definitely take some sustained effort and hard work to properly harness these
behaviors and enact them in my life, in a way that is best in each
circumstance.
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